Typically people who ignore new users do so because they’ve been burnt in the past on brand-new users. Unfortunately, this Is the personal preference of the seller, and can’t be argued with, and must be respected.
That being said, do some looking around, try and hold a conversation / explain yourself to sellers, and build relationships that way. (Trust is always earned, even here, never bought) I have plenty of “buddies” from this forum who I don’t conduct business with. That all starts by researching and learning about the community. We can’t cater to everyone’s needs or wants, it’s your responsibility to adapt to it!!
Cheers man!! And if you need any FV accounts for cheap, hit me up (that’s all I sell, or I can refer you to people I know to be trustworthy here)
EDIT: Also, (been thinking about this; gotta love medical marijuana) I think the reason you made this post, is actually the exact reason that makes ECT (In my opinion) the best EQ RMT site. Yes, some sellers here are more difficult or require a certain amount of trust before a transaction, but that is what keeps ECT the safest, and most secure place to trade. Our moderators do a pretty damn good job about insta-banning known scammers on an almost day to day basis. You can check for yourself within the dispute forums, the amount of people they ban for this is actually insane. Other places won't do that, or, are not nearly as vigilant about it from what I've seen.
I'll say from my 4 years of EQ Buy / Sell / Trading career, the only place I personally felt comfortable conducting business, was here. I also remember even then, it still took a lot of work on my part. This is why I harp on new buyers / sellers that come in with the "I deserve respect" mentality. It's just not how it works on a business based entirely around trust. Cheers!! Back to my own mind... xD